Lap It Up

This little mermaid has always been more at home submerged in a waterworld than wandering about on land, the pedestrian God finally fashioned me…

No complaints here; I don’t mind at all walking the land, the concrete, the stairs, to reach my final destination: a body of water. And its into this I dive. A royal swandive, usually.

Waterworld - NIKON D3000 f/18; Exposure 1/80sec; ISO-100

Waterworld - NIKON D3000 f/18; Exposure 1/80sec; ISO-100

Formative years were built upon Sydney sand and surf, our family home 10 minutes walk from Coogee Beach and my parent’s deli located literally 50 meters from the sandstone wall separating beach from parkland. It was on this wall that thousands of Aussie bums, sandy swimming trunks, and sunburnt, salty limbs would perch watching the gromits lose their boardies in the chop and learn the hard way that its a crime to drop in on another man’s wave.  By the way, and for your information, dropping in is a crime in the surf world. A drop-in is where a surfer catches a wave without having priority, for there is already a surfer on the wave. BAD MOVE!

My own memories of early swims don’t actually exist, so integral was the daily dose of ducking and diving waves to the Life of Young Alice. Swimming: as part of my being as playing with friends, reading a book and riding a bike (though I do remember the horrors of learning to ride.)

Waterworld - NIKON D3000 f/9; Exposure 1/320sec; ISO-100

Waterworld - NIKON D3000 f/9; Exposure 1/320sec; ISO-100

Fast forward forty years and it is to swimming that I turn when the heat of Dubai rises above forty degrees centigrade, so that bitumen melts and birds disappear from trees. Its to the pool I turn for physical and mental rewards (and lets face it – relief from 8 months of dog-day swelter), and to this ancient sport, second only to running as my favourite pass-time. No need to state the obvious, but running is a dangerous sport for us desert-dwellers. Stick to the water; even the doctors recommend it.

Waterworld - NIKON D3000 f/9; Exposure 1/250sec; ISO-100

Waterworld - NIKON D3000 f/9; Exposure 1/250sec; ISO-100

As such, swimming is my salvation. It immediately cools my hot head, then stretches my body beyond earthly limits, eliminating every ache and indulging every muscle. But more that this: its my inward journey, a time of silencio; quiet contemplation. I am cocooned in an element to some alien and to me so familiar.

Peace. And then my mind goes to work; it is flexed; it imagines all sorts of realities; new possibilities manifest. I work things out without the interruption of human voice or emails. Silence is all around. Cool, dark, wet silence. Just me and my breaths. The little mermaid from Coogee at it again.

 

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A Winning Photo

Look which image won the Dubai Mother’s Day Photo Award for 2012? This one! And most certainly a prouder photographer there never was…

This is my beautiful friend Michelle and her daughter Zara-Laine. Michelle asked me to shoot the celebration of Zara-Laine’s First Birthday Party, and I was thrilled to do so, using my Nikon kit and NIKKOR AF-S 50mm 1.4G prime lens.

Zara’s First Birthday Party in the sunshine of Dubai…

NIKON D3000; NIKKOR Fixed Lens 1.4G; f/4; Exposure 1/125sec; ISO-100

NIKON D3000; NIKKOR Fixed Lens 1.4G; f/4; Exposure 1/125sec; ISO-100

How lovely to shoot in warm sunshine, light of afternoon, golden glow such rays bestow on skin. The golden hours to take photos, especially when it comes to landmark events such as special birthdays, are the very best hours. And depending on where you are, these witching hours are from 5PM onwards.

NIKON D3000; NIKKOR Prime Lens 1.4G; f/6.3; Exposure 1/80sec; ISO-100

NIKON D3000; NIKKOR Prime Lens 1.4G; f/6.3; Exposure 1/80sec; ISO-100

People often say they like my pictures because they come across natural and candid.  However funnily enough, natural and candid pictures can often result in an image which the client doesn’t actually like of themselves – there is an art to making your pictures “look” natural and candid, but still keeping them professional and flattering.

It is much easier to get successful candid shots of little ones, as children tend to do their own thing and not look/listen to you for direction, which means they are totally unaware of you as you capture beauty in their form.  However, once you start to introduce adults to a picture, candid shots can look very unflattering.  Most adults are self conscious and will look to you for direction and reassurance.  The trick is to thoroughly prepare for the shoot…

NIKON D3000; NIKKOR Prime Lens 1.4G; f/5; Exposure 1/60sec; ISO-100

NIKON D3000; NIKKOR Prime Lens 1.4G; f/5; Exposure 1/60sec; ISO-100

Spend ample time prior to shooting establishing then further developing a relationship with your subjects so that you all have a great time together. They feel relaxed, you are relaxed, and before you know it, we are all having fun. Then lo! The essence of these children’s hearts is captured, and the bliss of the parents is forever locked into an image they will treasure forever. A memory made digital.

NIKON D3000; NIKKOR Prime Lens 1.4G; f/3.2; Exposure 1/40sec; ISO-100

NIKON D3000; NIKKOR Prime Lens 1.4G; f/3.2; Exposure 1/40sec; ISO-100

Below is the link to view the winning photo on the KidvilleUAE website:

https://www.facebook.com/KidvilleUAE?ref=ts

 

 

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International No Diet Day

Every year, the international community collectively lets its belts out two notches and we  take leave to gluttonously indulge in the most outrageous and tasty fodder we can lay our mitts on.

Oh yeas: for on Sunday 6th May, for a full 24 hours, we let it all hang out in celebration of International No Diet Day. Hurrah!!

NIKON D3000 f/2.2; Exposure 1/40sec; ISO-100

NIKON D3000 f/2.2; Exposure 1/40sec; ISO-100

Now we have all heard these conversations before (it happened at my place today!), at dinner parties, brunches, meetings and parties: women carrying on about how they “really shouldn’t” before reaching for a slice of baklava, and how they’re going to eat only one friand and start their emergency diet on Monday, in order to fit into the new/old pair of jeans before summer holidays/next weekend’s school reunion.

NIKON D3000 F/4.2; Exposure 1/125sec; ISO-100

NIKON D3000 F/4.2; Exposure 1/125sec; ISO-100

It was just this kind of conversation, at a women’s management course of all places, which motivated a certain Ms. Mary Evans Young to challenge the group on its obsessive fat chat. “What do you think would happen if you spent as much time and energy on your careers as you do on diets?” she asked the group. The response was immediate from these women. It was as if the women had been waiting for the opportunity to vent on this topic.

NIKON D3000 f/3.5; Exposure 1/60sec; ISO-200

NIKON D3000 f/3.5; Exposure 1/60sec; ISO-200

So in 1991, Young launched International No Diet Day in London; it has since spread around the world. On Sunday, May 6th, the entire day was set aside to focus on healthy lifestyles and the futility and dangers of dieting. So no: not stuffing your cake-hole with creamy custard pie and multiple helpings of butter chicken, in any order you fancy…

NIKON D3000 F/3.5; Exposure 1/100sec; ISO-100

NIKON D3000 F/3.5; Exposure 1/100sec; ISO-100

While young women are one of the demographics gaining weight the fastest – an average of 7-10kg per decade – being preoccupied with food; obsessing over food; driven mad at the thought of the next meal, is a slippery slope to an unhealthy relationship with what really should represent delights to the palate and nutrition of the body. Food as Fuel. Food as a Pleasure to enjoy. Guilt free.

NIKON D3000 f/6.3; Exposure 1/2500sec; ISO-200

NIKON D3000 f/6.3; Exposure 1/2500sec; ISO-200

Now you may choose to celebrate No Diet Day by consuming cake all day long! To your heart’s content!! Or you may make a concerted effort to participate in a culture where preoccupation with weight and scales and carbohydrate concentration ceases to exist.

NIKON D3000 f/3.2; Exposure 1/125sec; ISO-100

NIKON D3000 f/3.2; Exposure 1/125sec; ISO-100

Sunday 6th May 2012 – International No Diet Day. What a day! What a cause!! I’ll eat, slurp, munch and nibble to that.

 

 

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Contemporary Omani Homes

Ah, Oman. The textbook example of how a nation’s leader can provide modernity to its people and guests, with that definite nod to heritage and culture in its architectural design. This seamless amalgam of past and present is manifest in the design of Omani housing, the subject of this posting.

Oman is the third largest country in Arabia after Saudi Arabia and Yemen and comprises five distinct geographical regions, the Musandam peninsula, the Batinah coastal strip, the Hajjar mountains, the Naj desert and Dhofar. Its to the coast that I made my way, and here that exquisite Omani architecture had me snapping away madly…

Jebel Sifah, Oman: NIKON D3000 f/11; Exposure 1/100sec; ISO-100

Jebel Sifah, Oman: NIKON D3000 f/11; Exposure 1/100sec; ISO-100

The earliest settled communities in Oman have been dated to 5000 BCE and by 2000 BCE copper was being exported to Mesopotamia. In the fourth century BCE Oman was occupied by the Persians who remained in control of the country until the advent of Islam in 650 CE. Under Islam Oman’s trading network flourished. The Portugese came; the Portugese conquered and by 1650 the Portuguese had been expelled by the Ya’ariba leader, Sultan bin Say. Internal conflicts allowed a Persian invasion in 1743 but this was brought to an end by Ahmad ibn Sa’id governor of Sohar who was elected imam in 1743. He was the founder of the Al Bu Sa’id dynasty which continues to rule Oman today.

In 1730 Oman had acquired the island of Zanzibar, and it was on this island that in 1830 Oman’s new capital was declared. From 1856 Oman and Zanzibar were ruled by two branches of the same family.

Jebel Sifah, Oman: NIKON D3000 f/8; Exposure 1/500sec; ISO-100

Jebel Sifah, Oman: NIKON D3000 f/8; Exposure 1/500sec; ISO-100

It was as late as 1970 that Oman was finally modernized; a blessing in disguise, for this meant that traditional architecture has survived here better than in most of the other Gulf states. The main building materials employed in Oman are mud brick, baked brick, stone, mangrove poles, palm trees and lime (used for mortar and plaster).

Jebel Sifah, Oman: NIKON D3000 f/5.6; Exposure 1/2000sec; ISO-100

Jebel Sifah, Oman: NIKON D3000 f/5.6; Exposure 1/2000sec; ISO-100

Baked brick is used fairly infrequently in Oman and is confined mostly to the port of Sohar. Occasionally baked bricks are found incorporated into buildings outside Sohar such as the arches of the Great Mosque in Bahla.

Mud brick on the other hand is more common and is used in the oasis towns of the interior.

Mangrove poles imported from East Africa are frequently used for roofing in the houses of the coast. Palm trunks are also used for roofing. Several types of stone are used for building in Oman: coral blocks on the north coast, coastal limestone in Dhofar and roughly hewn blocks of igneous rock in the mountains.

Jebel Sifah, Oman: NIKON D3000 f/8; Exposure 1/320sec; ISO-100

Jebel Sifah, Oman: NIKON D3000 f/8; Exposure 1/320sec; ISO-100

The architecture of Oman can be divided into several types based on the type of building, the materials used and the location. The main groups are houses, mosques, forts and mansions.

Until recently the most common form of architecture on the coast was the palm-frond house which may take several forms from a single-room temporary dwelling used for the date harvest to a large enclosure incorporating winter and summer rooms. The winter houses have flat roofs whereas the summer houses have pitched roofs and are called Khaymah (tent). Often houses made of other materials have palm-frond roofs or verandas.

Jebel Sifah, Oman: NIKON D3000 f/8; Exposure 1/400sec; ISO-100

Jebel Sifah, Oman: NIKON D3000 f/8; Exposure 1/400sec; ISO-100

Coast houses are made out of squared limestone blocks which are interspersed with wooden tie-beams.

One of the consequences of Oman’s vast trading links was the growth of a wealthy mercantile class who were able to build mansions. Common features found in these and important houses include carved doorways and pre-cast stucco mouldings around recesses. Such buildings often have a private prayer room, a light well (shamsiya) and ventilation slits above the windows.

Jebel Sifah, Oman: NIKON D3000 f/8; Exposure 1/250sec; ISO-100

Jebel Sifah, Oman: NIKON D3000 f/8; Exposure 1/250sec; ISO-100

My camera could not get enough of these elegant, summery homes, landscaped with date palms, lush grass and flowering bushes. We thank the leader of Oman Sultan Qaboos for infusing the proud nation’s history into each stone, every foundation, and along each wall of the contemporary Oman home.

 

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Oman – Part III – Sifawi Boutique Hotel

When thoroughly modern and hard-working ladies wish to take a break from the humdrum of paid employment, decisions must be made and consensus reached as to where said break shall be taken. No easy feat for many, but for some, its a simple and quick choice: Oman.

International flights land in the sovereign state’s fair capital, Muscat on the regular and from here a sweet 45 minute boat trip or jolly taxi ride will deposit travellers to their destination: for us four girls this was Sifawi Boutique Hotel, in the mountains-meets-the-sea landscape of dreams, Jebel Sifah….

Jebel Sifah Oman: NIKON D3000 f/8; Exposure 1/640sec; ISO-100

Jebel Sifah Oman: NIKON D3000 f/8; Exposure 1/640sec; ISO-100

The development of Sifah is bordered by the Hajjar Mountains and the Gulf of Oman, with a Marina built between the breathtaking two. Boat rides on one side, camels on the other, and an oceanful of fresh fish were you inclined to a seafood lunch accompanied by your “grape beverage”(!).

Sifawi Boutique Hotel Oman: NIKON D3000 f/3.5; Exposure 1/1250sec; ISO-100

Sifawi Boutique Hotel Oman: NIKON D3000 f/3.5; Exposure 1/1250sec; ISO-100

Situated along the marina boulevard at Jebel Sifah, the Sifawi Boutique Hotel lies in the heart of this picturesque marina town. Perpetual blue skies framed my vision each morning when I woke, stretched and sauntered out for a looksee. What did I get? Pristine clear waters, the odd luxury yacht and warm breezes setting my mood gauge to “feeling wonderful” all day long. But I was not alone in feeling secure, at home and comfortable at Sifawi, for my travel companions moaned at not wishing to leave as well…

His Magesty Sultan Qaboos Bin Said of Oman: NIKON D3000 f/3.5; Exposure 1/60sec; ISO-100

His Magesty Sultan Qaboos Bin Said of Oman: NIKON D3000 f/3.5; Exposure 1/60sec; ISO-100

The Omani people are world renowned for their unassuming hospitality and good graces, fine example was apportioned to us during our stay. They are ruled by the Sultan of Oman Qaboos Bin Said who exercises ultimate authority. Oil is a natural resource which has afforded Oman wealth, prosperity and the division of such national fortune throughout all sectors of society, to all people, makes for a proud and confident people.

Oman’s reserves of petroleum total about 5.5 billion barrels, 24th largest in the world. It was with the commerical decision to export of oil in 1967 and since Sultan Qaboos’ accession to the throne in 1970, that many more oil fields have been found and developed. The nation thus thrived. To think, prior to 1970, Oman was closed off from the rest of the world: no electricity, no roads, no infrastructure, no modern trade…

Al Sabla Restaurant Al Safawi Hotel NIKON D3000 f/5 Exposure 1/15sec; ISO-200

Al Sabla Restaurant Al Safawi Hotel NIKON D3000 f/5 Exposure 1/15sec; ISO-200

Fast forward to 2012: four girls from Dubai, treating themselves to boutique luxury Omani-styles, food and beverages included! May the good work of Sultan Qaboos continue and may the proud Sultanate of Oman extend its congenial hand to the weary traveller again and again.

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Oman – Part II – Sifawi Boutique Hotel

Here’s a tale of four frazzled ex-pat ladies, hailing from Australia and Scotland, residing in Dubai, and desperate for a getaway. Destination? The Sifawi Boutique Hotel, along the coast of Oman, a mere 60km drive (or watertaxi! Take your pick!) southeast of Muscat, the sovereign nation’s fine capital.

Sifawi Boutique Hotel Oman: NIKON D3000 f/8; Exposure 1/400sec; ISO-100

Sifawi Boutique Hotel Oman: NIKON D3000 f/8; Exposure 1/400sec; ISO-100

All that these girls required of their sojourn was a camp of tranquility; a haven of relaxation. What the foursome received for all their work-a-day toiling back in Dubai was bountiful: a sun-infused scenic destination fringed by sandy white beaches and turquoise waters of the Arabian Sea, and surrounded by the noble Hajjar mountain range. Marina on one side, pristine beach on the other, and mountain ranges (or Jebels) forming a curved spine along the back. Wow.

Sifawi Boutique Hotel Oman: NIKON D3000 f/4.5; Exposure 1/2000sec; ISO-100

Sifawi Boutique Hotel Oman: NIKON D3000 f/4.5; Exposure 1/2000sec; ISO-100

En route to Jebel Sifah, the friends passed through the peaceful and modest fishing village of Sifah. The sun was shining, the breeze was blowing; it all bode well. Sure enough, and soon enough, Jebel Sifah gave clearance to the unique architecture of the Sifawi Hotel. How is it that a combinaton of indigenous, Omani elements and classic Middle Eastern design can be executed so discreetly; so arrestingly? The friends were ready to explore their new quarters…

Sifawi Boutique Hotel Oman: NIKON D3000 f/14; Exposure 1/200sec; ISO-100

Sifawi Boutique Hotel Oman: NIKON D3000 f/14; Exposure 1/200sec; ISO-100

The dramatic mountainous setting is also home to luxurious residences of diverse architecture and style, a 200 berth marina and marina town, and restaurants. All terribly impressive. But for these four friends, most critical of course was the pool. Temperature-perfect water and sunbeds made for snoozing, an armful of magazines and gentle nudges by the staff when it was time for complimentary chilled fruit-sticks. Three days, two nights, immeasurable bliss…

Sifawi Boutique Hotel Oman: NIKON D3000 f/7.1; Exposure 1/800sec; ISO-100

Sifawi Boutique Hotel Oman: NIKON D3000 f/7.1; Exposure 1/800sec; ISO-100

 

 

 

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Oh Man! Oman…Part 1

This is a tale of four lasses who stole away to glorious Oman for a getaway to recover from the horrors of working full time in Dubai. This trip was a photographer’s dream: travel by air, sea and road, luxury hotels, buffet breakfasts, long walks, swims in the sea, and righting the wrongs of our little worlds over complementary “grape beverages” (as they euphamistically call booze in Oman)…

Oman – where the mountains meet the sea, with a little desert thrown in for good measure. Bordered by Yemen, Saudi Arabia, the UAE and the clearest of waterways such as the Arabian and Oman Seas, the Sultanate of Oman was an easy choice as our sanity-saving decampment.

Sifawi Boutique Hotel, Oman: Nikon D3000 f/8; Exposure 1/500sec; ISO-100

Sifawi Boutique Hotel, Oman: Nikon D3000 f/8; Exposure 1/500sec; ISO-100

When Sutan Qaboos bin Said Al Said came to power in 1970, Oman was completely isolated; closed off with no roads and no means of communication and could not afford to be part of the industrial boom enjoyed by the rest of the world post World War II.

But like any sagacious Arab leader, the proper exploitation of oil led to a remarkable development for his sovereign state. In 2010, the United Nations Development Program listed Oman, from among 135 countries worldwide, as the nation most-improved during the preceding 40 years. In fact, Oman is one of the most developed and stable countries in the Arab Region. It is also the most naturally beautiful dominion I have cast eyes upon…

Sifawi Boutique Hotel, Oman: NIKON D3000 f/3.5; Exposure 1/800sec; ISO-100

Sifawi Boutique Hotel, Oman: NIKON D3000 f/3.5; Exposure 1/800sec; ISO-100

Sifah was once a sweet, sleepy fishing village which got turned on its head and developed into Jebel Sifah, now housing the magnificent architecture of the Sifawi Boutique Hotel, Marina and Villas. The entire hamlet is nestled between the Hajjar Mountains and the Gulf of Oman. This is where four girls escaped Dubai; dined; drank; swam; got seduced by wonderlust…

Much of Oman’s history is echoed in mud brick, stucco and stone of its defensive architecture. However Sifawi affords a completely alternate architectural paradigm to the guest. It was Italian architect Alfredo Freda who created the Sifawi look, designed the villas and landscaping, and provided my camera lens the prettiest of images to capture.

Sifawi Boutique Hotel, Oman: NIKON D3000 f/4.5; Exposure 1/400sec; ISO-100

Sifawi Boutique Hotel, Oman: NIKON D3000 f/4.5; Exposure 1/400sec; ISO-100

 

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Ode to a Hug

Holding Hands: KODAK DX6490 ZOOM f/2.8; Exposure 1/30sec

Holding Hands: KODAK DX6490 ZOOM f/2.8; Exposure 1/30sec

WEEE! That’s how I feel when I am on a playdate with an exceptional friend who likes as I do hugs and hand-holding and all sorts of soul-nourishing flourishes of affection. Whether taking a stroll beside a lazy river, or dancing spontaneously to the tunes in our head while stopped at a picnic spot, its the filial love that is borne the instant hands are held and embraces are enacted which render the heart set as cherished by the other. For the heart sure takes kindly to a hug.

Magical Hug: KODAK DX6490 ZOOM f/3.2; Exposure 1/60sec

Magical Hug: KODAK DX6490 ZOOM f/3.2; Exposure 1/60sec

Whether a bear-hug, or bunny-hug; a clinch, squeeze or an embrace, it is pure comfort and a sense of belonging that is enacted in the execution of a genuine hug. We belong together! I belong here!, my heart hollers. What peaceful gratification that brings…

Running Through the Fields: KODAK DX6490 ZOOM f/4; Exposure 1/500sec

Running Through the Fields: KODAK DX6490 ZOOM f/4; Exposure 1/500sec

 

 

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Flowers Up A Wall

Art as Gift. KODAK DX6490 ZOOM f/2.8; Exposure 1/30sec

Art as Gift. KODAK DX6490 ZOOM f/2.8; Exposure 1/30sec

How exquisite is A Flower! What miracle is serves when lifting downtrodden spirits or sullen moods. Where does its well of endless beauty stem? How is it that my eyes never tire to fix upon a flower, whether sprouting in the garden, upright in a vase, or hanging from a wall?

Easily infatuated, I am drawn immediately to a flower’s petals, bright or dusky-hued, I don’t mind, feathered or uncurled in outline it matters not; those long filaments ending with fuzzy anthers so seductive too (and if I were born a bee, it would be to the anther I would buzz).

Art as Gift. KODAK DX6490 ZOOM f/2.8; Exposure 1/30sec

Art as Gift. KODAK DX6490 ZOOM f/2.8; Exposure 1/30sec

This magnificent oil-on-canvas was gifted to Mr. H and I by our Auntie who happens to be artist-in-residence in a mountain highlands village in rural New South Wales, Australia. The gift was to congratulate us on our decision to get hitched. It now hangs proudly over an antique timber dining table. This image was taken the moment we were escorted into our Aunt’s studio, and while left alone, invited to cast our eyes and hearts over the artworks. Whichever whispered to us “take me home!”, well, that was her gift to us.

Which brings me to the beauty that can be manufactured simply by placing flowers sympathetically about the house. In this case, artwork depicting a one of my favourite flowers: the small, fragile, brilliantly red wildflower poppy…

Prettily Hung Art. KODAK DX6490 ZOOM f/2.8; Exposure 1/20sec

Prettily Hung Art. KODAK DX6490 ZOOM f/2.8; Exposure 1/20sec

Works of art calm the mind, revives the spirit, and enlive an appreciation of domestic felicity. When hanging art, the designer’s rule of thumb is to make sure that the artwork is about 2/3 to 3/4 the length of the furniture. Smaller pictures singly or combined create balance with a open piece of furniture like a narrow, vintage hall table with airy cabriolet legs. Add a flower arrangement, perhaps a lamp for symmetry, and suddenly your once sterile corner of the house is a field of dreams!

 

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Froth n Frou-Frou

Four years ago, I made one of the biggest financial decisions of my life. Loverboy and I decided to get married.

Not for the faint-hearted, a modern girl like me covets a style of wedding that reflects entirely my Sydney style, how thoroughly contemporary I wish to be portrayed to our well-wishers, and of course a nod to the fantasy-land my mind often wanders into. This equation inevitably ends with a multitude of dollar signs and/or lengthy credit card statements which somehow must get paid. Burdensome stuff.

Bridesmaid and the Bride: D3000 f/3.8; Exposure 1/60sec; ISO-200

Bridesmaid and the Bride: D3000 f/3.8; Exposure 1/60sec; ISO-200

Fast forward to the now: to Dubai, and its off to the 2012 Bridal Expo that trusty Nikon and I beat a path to. Its a double role I play today, for not only am I documenting the voluminous frocks and endless rhinestone corsets on display, but two of my dearest BFF are soon to get hitched and its as their objective observer that I accompany them to the glittering show.

Mannuequin Bride: D3000; f/3.5; Exposure 1/40sec; ISO-200.

Mannuequin Bride: D3000; f/3.5; Exposure 1/40sec; ISO-200.

With annual revenues of $53.3 billion and employing hundreds of thousands of people, the wedding industry contributes handsomely to many an economy and causes pockets to burn. Gone are the days of sweet religeous services, hand-me-down dresses and home-made fruit cakes. The average wedding held in the USA, Australia and other relatively strong economies ranges from $36,ooo to $50,000. And this is the lower end, mind. I won’t even mention the right side of the all-out spending bell-curve.

Wedding Cost Through the Years

Wedding Cost Through the Years

Any way you cut it, couples are today forking out the equivalent of a 10% deposit on the median-priced capital city home for their wedding. For their friends to eat cake; for their loved ones to drink their fill of fizz…for one frazzled night.

So why have weddings become so expensive? Just have a look at the asking price of “The Gown of your Dreams” and you may get your answer: hyperinflated highway robbery. Multiply that for every aspect of the wedding, add afew more zeros to the end of the price tag, add an overzealous bride and an anxious-to-please husband-to-be, and the end result is a king’s ransom.

Suck it and See Corsetry: D3000 f/3.5; Exposure 1/60sec; ISO-200

Suck it and See Corsetry: D3000 f/3.5; Exposure 1/60sec; ISO-200

Many a cost-conscious bride will moan about the ”wedding premium” charged  by venues, florists and make-up artists. Cost of a makeover? About $100. Cost of a bridal makeover? Triple it.

The Modern Bride. D3000 f/3.5; Exposure 1/50sec; ISO-200

The Modern Bride. D3000 f/3.5; Exposure 1/50sec; ISO-200

However fair play to the modern bride who is a busy creature what with juggling work, wielding positions of real power let alone fretting over linen napery and ice sculptures of her dream nuptules. This thoroughly modern Milly is prepared to pay a premium for someone to organise the details of her big day. In economics jargon, the opportunity cost of a woman’s time has risen.

And that is something truly worth celebrating.  Lets eat CAKE!

Cupcake Heaven. Nikon D3000 f/3.4; Exposure 1/60sec; ISO-200

Cupcake Heaven. Nikon D3000 f/3.4; Exposure 1/60sec; ISO-200

 

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